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By: Cyndi

Cyndi — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:23:24 +0000

1 male and 4 females. Ugh – asking a narcissist what they love about you would be the worst. But you didn’t know at the time. Typical, superficial response.

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By: Dawn

Dawn — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 06:27:24 +0000

This post reminded me of a time years ago when I asked the Narc in my life what he loved about me. The answer was so icky I can’t bare to tell you. I wish I would have asked five sane people the same question at the time so I didn’t get a stain on my brain for a few years. Truly, I was no where in the hemisphere of dealing with a potential blow to my fragile self after hearing I was loved for my kisses, tongue and eyes.

If I do try this experiment one day, I’ll be sure to ask women and men. What was your ratio of women to men … curious?
Dawn´s last blog ..I Confess, I’m Obsessed

By: Cyndi

Cyndi — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 04:40:43 +0000

I try really hard not to get locked up!

It seemed like it took forever for them to respond, because it was so awful waiting to hear back. Of course I thought they all thought I’d gone off the deep end.

By: Les

Les — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 04:33:19 +0000

It really is hard to lose that little nagging voice telling you you’re not up to par, but you’re right. You just keep drowning it out with a louder voice that reminds you of how awesome you really are. (Just please do it all in your head or they’ll lock you up!)

You were brave to ask 5 people what they think of you. I’d be scared to death to get the answers!